Thursday, October 18

What Hijab Does to Guys - the Article



Salam alayk wrh. 
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Now let’s get straight to the point. Perhaps the most intriguing part of any religion or faith in that matter is the identity of the religion itself. In Christianity is the cross and for Islam is maybe the hijab of the women. What more defines a woman that she is a Muslimah other than the cloth called the hijab that she is covering herself with?
I don’t think we need any more introductions to what is hijab really. It’s global. Look around.

Now many free-thinkers, call the hijab; 
an oppression to the individual identity of a person where a Muslim woman cannot express herself completely with the need to cover every part of her body. If she doesn’t she’ll go to Hell.
Then the reply would be from every free Muslimah is that to wear this, the hijab is by their own choice and never by oppression. 
I’m a guy and I may not be the best person and or even the best gender to represent the Muslim woman so I’ll do what I can do, represent the guys. First things first, let me tell you that;

Girls, if you wear the hijab, you have more freedom than any other girl who doesn’t, to walk about this world and be without worries, because guys are protected from you.

Why? Because Allah mentioned the purpose of the hijab in Al-Ahzab verse 59:

يَا أَيُّهَا النَّبِيُّ قُلْ لأزْوَاجِكَ وَبَنَاتِكَ وَنِسَاءِ الْمُؤْمِنِينَ يُدْنِينَ عَلَيْهِنَّ مِنْ جَلابِيبِهِنَّ ذَلِكَ أَدْنَى أَنْ يُعْرَفْنَ فَلا يُؤْذَيْنَ وَكَانَ اللَّهُ غَفُورًا رَحِيمًا (٥٩)

59. O Prophet! Tell Thy wives and daughters, and the believing women, that They should cast their outer garments over their persons (When abroad): that is Most convenient, that They should be known (as such) and not molested. and Allah is Oft- forgiving, Most Merciful.

 Why do you think that the only, or the majority of groups that fight for "woman rights" are feminist groups? It's because they fight for what they thought was best for them. They don't consult other parties, second nor third. They forgot to ask the men, and Allah. They wanted equality in the form of identicality not equality in the sense of they have different abilities but in summary on equal ground. So, what I’m gonna do is now is tell the side that is often forgotten in matters concerning the hijab, like I said; the perception of a man.

So Allah stated in the previous the very purpose of the hijab is to guard women from men. That is one of the main reasons to wear it other than following the commandments of Allah SWT. All men know the danger of a woman with tight-fitting and revealing clothing. It’s a sexual harassment to men actually. Okay, I may be exaggerating but tight-fitting-wearing girls you are torturing men mentally and sexually by revealing your figure to him. Girls you are a lean, mean psychology weapon when you abuse the power of seduction. It’s not the man’s fault. It’s just nature. 
So Allah has spruced up an ingenious solution to the nature that He has bestowed inside of us;

Solution #1:
Girls: cover your body and guard your words and tone. That is unless you’re on purposely trying to seduce a guy, but that’s another story.
Solution #2:
Guys: let’s lower our sight, and a free mind is a must have. How on earth should a girl guard herself when a guy keeps assaulting her with attention? It’s annoying – true story from a girl.

So basically what hijab does to guys is that they protect us, guys from thoughts that torture the soul then it moves to actions, then rape happens, then the girls get all beat up because she got raped. So to avoid this chain of sequence, wear the hijab properly. It helps guys from giving girls unwanted attention.

Now girls please understand the hijab doesn’t make you less appealing, in fact it makes you more so to marry. What you hide from guys is your greatest asset and they would only find that out after they are legally married to you. There’s more to share and feel together after marriage, which makes it last longer, most probably till the end of life on Earth, then continue on in Jannah. So it’s a win-win situation. Both genders get each other as companions for life.

So that’s about it. Girls, if you really love a guy, don’t make him suffer. If you don’t have a guy, then do it for your own good and safety. Wear the hijab not only because Allah says so, but also with purpose.

With great power comes great responsibility.” 
– fictional character of Ben Parker, Spiderman
Girls, you do have power. Be responsible.

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